A New Year To Re-New Your Marriage
The Solstice and the New Year include weeks of reflection and excitement for the upcoming year ahead.
How can I use that enthusiasm to light up & renew my marriage?
How can I use the past year as a springboard to make our future marriage even better?
What can I complete from 2018 so not to drag it with me into the next year of our marriage?
Here are the 4 Questions I used to complete the past and re-new our marriage –
1. What thoughts are not serving our marriage well? What can I let go of?
The “You don’t love me enough” thought.
2. What can I brag about? What were the highs from 2018? What can we celebrate?
We did very well as a team recuperating from a surgery together.
When the shitola hits the fan, we work well together.
3. What am I still working on?
I am a tad on the critical side.
Where did I place those “See the Good Stuff Goggles”? (I need to have a pair of those glasses in every room of the house so I can find them quicker!)
4. What have I learned that I can I bring into our next year together?
Acceptance and Allowance.
Loving my husband for everything he is —- and everything he is not.
Loving myself for everything I am —- and everything I am not.
Complete the past and bring only the good stuff into the new year of your marriage!
Happy New Year 2019 to each and every one of you.
Love & hugs,
If one of your goals or resolutions for this new year is to upgrade your marriage from good to great, then let’s work together to do just that. Contact me to schedule a call where you will talk and I will listen.
Tell me where your marriage is today and where you want it to be six weeks or six months from today. I’ll let you know if, and how, we can get your marriage from here to there – in six weeks or six months.
Go from good to great today. Schedule your call with me here.