Receiving & Giving Love Bombs in Your Marriage
I used to tell myself that my husband didn’t love me.
“He doesn’t use his words to tell me he loves me”, I told myself.
I thought, “My husband doesn’t appreciate me.”
And then I read Gary Chapman’s book, The Five Love Languages.
I gave it to my husband to read.
And he read it – just like that.
This book opened up a whole new world of love between my husband and me.
One night we had a short but incredibly powerful conversation about Love Bombs.
I finally understood that my husband had been throwing Love Bombs my way all along.
I just hadn’t been facing the right direction.
He’d throw a Love Bomb my way – and I wouldn’t even notice.
I was focused on what he WASN’T doing – and not on what he WAS doing.
He wasn’t telling me he loved me every day with his words.
My husband WAS telling me he loved me every day – almost every hour – with his actions.
He made me breakfast.
My husband drove me to the auto shop when I needed my car inspected.
He put the dishes away.
His acts of service were the Love Bombs.
I just needed to catch what he was throwing my way.
Now we laugh about it.
Because he wants me to receive his Love Bombs, he adds a gesture of throwing or makes the sound effects of dropping a Love Bomb on my head as he directs one my way.
“Boom.” Love Bomb delivered – and most important – Received.
My husband and I don’t always have our head in the game and we can miss the Love Bombs thrown our way.
The added gestures and sound effects help us a lot.
I don’t want to miss a single Love Bomb thrown my way.
“Boom.” Love Bomb.
And now I know when I am folding laundry or making dinner or driving him somewhere, I can smile knowing that I am giving my mate a Love Bomb.
Yep. That was a Love Bomb.
Not a chore.
It was a Love Bomb.
“Boom.” Love Bomb.
Grateful for Receiving & Giving Love Bombs with my hubby.
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Love Bombs made a dramatic difference in my marriage. I believe they will for yours too.
Now is the best time to upgrade your marriage – with Love Bombs.
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