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Marriage & Boredom

Marriage & Boredom

This is my gentle reminder to you.
Longevity in a relationship does not equal boredom.

Bring the right mind set to your marriage.

Marriage & Boredom

I met my husband 30 years ago at a local Farmers’ Market.
He was there to sell honey.
I was there on a friend’s suggestion to scope him out.

I took a gander at his cowboy boots, strolled over, chatted him up and gave him my phone number.
Spark at first sight.

I’ll share the rest of the story in bits and pieces in future blog posts.

Marriage & Boredom

My honey and I have been married for 23 ½ years and have had our share of challenges to marital bliss.
Somehow getting through those long lulls strengthened our connection and brought us closer together.

To my delight, new dimensions of emotional and physical intimacy continued to open up for us along the way, decades after we declared our wedding vows.

Who knew?

Marriage & Boredom

It’s a myth that longevity in a committed relationship leads to boredom in the bedroom – or in any room of the house.

What I discovered is that with the right mind set and intention, a long-term committed relationship can actually provide the safety to fully share oneself emotionally and sexually with another human being.

In whatever way that brings you pleasure.

My parents got divorced when I was in middle school.
Each remarried when I was already living on my own as a young adult.
I didn’t witness on a day to day basis what a successful marriage looked and felt like.

Marriage & Boredom

The trust that developed over time our relationship was a surprise gift in my marriage.

Marriage provides a unique opportunity to grow and evolve.
I promise, you will never be bored.

Go out and practice.
Bring the right mind set to your marriage.

Longevity in a relationship does not equal boredom.

If your marriage is in a long lull and you want to change your mind set, contact me to discover how you can have a more connected, pleasure-led and loving marriage.

Schedule your complimentary 60 minute Discovery Call today.

I help high achieving women in long term relationships rekindle the spark and reignite the intimacy in their marriages.

Click here to sign up for a Discovery Call and learn how coaching with me can make the difference you long for with your spouse.

If this email resonates with you, please forward this on to a friend who might benefit from it too.

Podcasts I’m listening to this week:

 Small Things Often podcast, Ways to Fall in Love with Your Partner All Over Again from the Gottman Institute.

Listen to Emily Nagoski, sex educator & author of the New York Times best seller Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Transform Your Sex Life. Originally published in 2015, she speaks about one of the reasons she revised and updated her book. The new edition will be coming out in March 2021.

Whenever you are ready, here are three things that you can do this week: 

1. Click here to join my private Facebook group, The Pleasure Led Wife.
2. Private message me here with any questions about my coaching programs: Marriage Tune Up  & Marriage Rebuild: Get Your Motor Roaring.
3. Sign up here for a free 60 minute Discovery Call. Find out how coaching with me can get you unstuck and improve your relationships. 

Most important. Take care of you.

Here are 5 easy suggestions:
1. Get enough sleep. Establish a bedtime routine and follow it. 

2. Get outside in nature every day. Rain or shine. 
3. Appreciate what is wonderful in the world. Write 3-5 things you are grateful for each day.
4. Reach out to a sister. Call her once a week – or every day. Ask how she is and what she is feeling. Give her the space to release her feelings without any judgment or fixing.
5. Treat yourself to pleasure. Dance. Take a nap. Sing out loud. Read a novel. Soak in the tub. Do anything you want – just for the pleasure of it. 

With all my love.
From my heart to yours.

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gail tremblay

Gail Tremblay

I help men & women who feel lonely & discouraged in their marriages feel connected with their spouses again.

Schedule a Free Discovery Call with me today.