Married Sister Goddess Circle

A group for married Sister Goddesses who want to connect with other Goddesses and make their marriages come alive again.                           Registration opens February 12, 2024 for our Winter Circle.

Upping the Love Ante

This is my gentle reminder to you.
Up the love ante in your relationship.

Ask your Wise Inner Self what you can do to love your partner even more.

According to Mirriam-Webster’s definition of upping the ante,
“The cost, risk and reward go up as a result of upping the ante.”
And ‘upping’, per M-W, is “to raise to a higher level.”

Let’s raise the love ante in our relationships.

You all-in?

This lifetime you have the opportunity to grow and evolve in your ability to love.
Just how big, how open, how soft, how open can you get?

Let me throw in a challenge for you.
Without sacrificing yourself.

Love more – way more – without sacrificing you.

Does not compute.

Why not raise the love ante for all the players?

Bring this inquiry to your Wise Inner Self.
How can I love my partner even more?
Without sacrificing me?

Turn the timer on for 10 minutes.
Ask the question.
Be silent.

You may not hear what you expected.

Make a candlelit dinner.
Buy a dozen roses.
Offer hand dipped chocolate strawberries for dessert.
(Or appetizers…)

Your Wise Inner self may whisper something entirely different.

How can I love my partner even more?

Show me how to up the love ante in my relationship.

Without sacrificing me.

Your Wise Inner Self may make the following suggestions:

Listen more.
Talk less.
Get curious about your partner.
Stop being right – or convincing your spouse to see the world the same way you do.

Maybe simply allow him/her/they to be the person they are is the most generous gift of love you can give to your partner.

Would you like guidance with how to access your Wise Inner Self?
I can help.
Click here to sign up for a free Discovery Call.

Go out and practice.
Ask your Wise Inner Self what you can do to love your partner even more.

Up the love ante in your relationship.

I help women who’ve been with their spouses for ten years or longer, reignite the connection, passion and intimacy in their marriages.

Would you like some help with upping the love ante with your spouse?

I can help.
Click here to sign up for a free Discovery Call.

BONUS: In honor of Valentine’s Day, this week only I am offering my 6 week program to new clients.
* 6 weeks/6 – 60 minute sessions for $555.
(Currently I only offer 6 month and 12 month programs.)
Give yourself a Valentines Day gift that will keep giving love. To you and the people in your life.
* 6 weeks/6 – 60 minute sessions for $555

Schedule a call and find out if this is the gift you’ve been looking for.

This is what my clients have to say about working with me.

Click here to sign up for a Discovery Call and learn how coaching with me can make the difference you long for in your relationship.

If this email resonates with you, please forward this on to a friend who might benefit from it too.

Whenever you are ready, here are three things that you can do this week: 
1. Click here to learn more about me and my offerings on my website.
2. Private message me here with any questions about my coaching programs:
Tune Up Your Marriage (12 sessions/12 months)
Marriage Rebuild: Get Your Motor Running (18 sessions/6 months)
3. Sign up here for a free 60 minute Discovery Call. Find out how coaching with me can get you unstuck and improve your relationships. 

Most important. Take care of you.

Here are 5 easy suggestions:
1. Get enough sleep. Establish a bedtime routine and follow it. 

2. Get outside in nature every day. Rain or shine. 
3. Appreciate what is wonderful in the world. Write 3-5 things you are grateful for each day.
4. Reach out to a sister. Call her once a week – or every day. Ask how she is and what she is feeling. Give her the space to release her feelings without any judgment or fixing.
5. Treat yourself to pleasure. Dance. Take a nap. Sing out loud. Read a novel. Soak in the tub. Do anything you want – just for the pleasure of it. 

With all my love.
From my heart to yours.

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gail tremblay

Gail Tremblay

I help men & women who feel lonely & discouraged in their marriages feel connected with their spouses again.

Schedule a Free Discovery Call with me today.