Do You Need A Marriage Magician?
Be the best Marriage Magician you can be. Create your marriage with your thoughts and beliefs. The thoughts and beliefs you have about your marriage are the framework for the container that holds your marriage. Your marriage container. Thoughts I have as a foundation for my marriage are: My thoughts create our marriage. I can […]
Take Your Marriage From Meh to Mwah!
This is my gentle reminder to you. Take 100% responsibility for your marriage. Stop waiting and step into your power. Take your marriage from Meh to Mwah! Consider that your marriage is not a 50-50 agreement. What if you showed up as 100%? Taking complete responsibility for your relationship? Step back and take a look […]
Get Juiced!
This is my gentle reminder to you. How you show up to your marriage makes all the difference. Take charge. Put Yourself First When you put yourself first by doing what makes you feel good like spending time with friends, taking a hike in nature with your dog, writing in your journal, or sewing a […]
Spring Clean Your Marriage
This is my gentle reminder to you. Spring Clean your marriage with the 4 C’s: – Compassion, Curiosity, and Clean Communication. Clear out blame, complaint and resentment. Spring has finally arrived to the Northeast U.S. The warmer weather brings the ancestral pull to clear and clean. It’s in our DNA. We open the windows, and […]
3 Things to Give Up If You Want a Fun & Playful Marriage
This is my gentle reminder to you. Bring curiosity, humor, and play to your marriage. Be willing to give up blame, self-righteousness, and negativity. 1. Give up blaming & criticizing yourself You are human. There will be times that you find yourself in spin or doubt or just plain old stuck. Show yourself some love. Accept […]
Upping the Love Ante
This is my gentle reminder to you. Up the love ante in your relationship. Ask your Wise Inner Self what you can do to love your partner even more. According to Mirriam-Webster’s definition of upping the ante, “The cost, risk and reward go up as a result of upping the ante.” And ‘upping’, per M-W, […]
It Takes a Village
This is my gentle reminder to you. Don’t do your relationship alone. It takes a village to create a loving marriage. I suggest to my clients to do the majority of work on their marriages solo – without their spouses. What!? Yes, you read that right. Work on your marriage – without your spouse. Why? […]
Relationship Habits & Rituals
This is my gentle reminder to you. Take a love audit on your relationship. Loving habits create a loving life. You know what I’m talking about. The actions you take on the regular to love yourself up? A morning routine to upgrade yourself? From love, not disapproval? Some type of physical exercise, a meditation, an […]
Be Your Own Best Spouse
This is my gentle reminder to you. Love yourself up. Be your own best spouse. Many of my clients come to me with wanting their spouses to change. If only he/she did this – or didn’t do that – Our marriage would be so much better. If he/she were: More sexual. Less focused on work. […]
Cast Your Spell For 2021
This is my gentle reminder to you. Cast your spell for who you will be for your Relationships 2021. From completion you can create anew. You’ve declared 2020 done & complete. You’re ready for a few days of rest and relaxation. Celebrate all you’ve created, accomplished and nurtured relationship-wise in 2020. This year was not […]
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